1. Describe the day of your drunk driving from your own point of view with date and times.
(when, where and with whom drunk / when and how noticed / per thousand)
I went to a restaurant to meet my brother who came to berlin to visit me the previous night but unfortunately we couldnt meet on that day so i met him on 4th january 2019 in the morning around 10a.m
So after i met him we decided to get a couple of beers and because i knew we will want to move around with my car i called one of my friends to drive us later to meet my kid(son) at my girlfriends hause. My friend came after 2hours and it was around 13uhr. I later called one of my friends we used to drink mostly together and he also joined us. He also called a girl so that we can drink and party at the restaurant. We where now 4people in total, one girl and 3boys,at around 9p.m we decided to pick another girl in eisehuttenstatd and we knew her through the girl we where with. My friend was the one who was driving us all the way and he was the one to drive us again back to berlin because i was drunk.
After we arrived in eisehuttenstatd we waited at the entrence gate of asylheim for the girl to come out and we drive with her back to berlin but she took too long to prepare her self.
I was thirsty of smoking cigarettes and i had no cigarettes left so i told my friend to drive me to Tankstelle to buy cigarettes but he refused. So i decided to drive my self because it was 1.5km from where we where.
After a moving around trying to look where i could find Tankstelle thats when i was stopped with traffic police because of driving too slow. It was 1:30a.m
They asked me to do alcohol taste and i was drunk with 1.66promille so they asked me whos gonna drive the car and i told whem my friend was not drunk and he will drive us. He was also tasted alkohol and it was negative and we drove all to gether to do blood sample in which results for blood was 1.62 promille. Then we drove back to berlin.
2. What and how much did you drink on the Tattag?
(Details in variety, amount, drinking time)
I was drinking beer and vodka and between beer i was taking a swip of vodka
11uhr to 1uhr =9beers(berliner kindle) 0.5l
11uhr to 1uhr =4 wodka(grobachov) 0.1l
3. How many kilometers did you drive until you noticed and how many kilometers did you want to drive in total?
I had driven 2.6km before the police stopped me. I wanted to go to Aral petro station which was 850meters.
In total i wanted to drive 2km but we got lost with the google map.
4. Did you have the feeling that you could drive safely?
(Yes / no + justification)
Yes because of the alcohol tolerance i couldnt feel much drunk.
5. How did you want to avoid drunk driving (if at all)?
I called my friend so that he could drive us.
6. Have you been under the influence of alcohol in traffic earlier and did you notice?
No
7. How often have you drunk on public roads without attracting attention and what do you conclude from this?
About 50 mal with bicycle too and rest alcohol
exploration
8. When did you first come into contact with alcohol and when did you first drink alcohol?
(First memory and first consumption)
At the age of 13years at family traditional celebrations.
And at the age of 15years according to our culture after cercumsition you are forced to drink alcohol just to show that you are mature and thats when they gave me alcohol and its a self made alcohol called busaa.
9. Did you drink alcohol on a regular basis and how has your drinking habits evolved in recent years?
In 2000 untill 2002 i only drunk once 1liter Busaa during my circumcision ceremony believes.
2002 until 2004 i drunk 2liters of busaa once in a week just after the death of my father.
In the end year 2004 i completed my high school level and from 2005 i joined my big brother who used to work as a painter to give me a job wherever he also worked and this period i used to drink changaa 0.5liters from 2005 till 2009 twice a week.
I came to german end 2009 and i joined my language school and i drunk from 2009 till 2010 5beers 0.5liters once in a week.
End year 2010 to 2019 i was in Asylum camp where i tool around 6-9beers 0.5liter plus 2 to 4 vodka 0.1liters. Twice a week
10. How much and how often did you drink?
(Exact data in variety, quantity, frequency)
2000 to 2002=1liter busaa
2002 to 2004=2liters busaa 1mal woche
2004 to 2009=changaa 0.5 liters 2mal woche
2009 to 2010=5beers 0.5 liters 1mal in a woche
2010 to 2019=6to9beers 0.5l +2to4 0.1l vodka twice a week.
11. Where and with whom did you mostly drink?
With friends in Asyl camp
12. Why did you drink?
(Inside + outside motifs)
The year 2000 was because of our traditional believe after healing after circumcision.from 2002 after the death of my father i felt was a difficult time for me to get money so i tried to befriend with some of friends who where older than me and they used to work so for me to be more close to them we used to drink together after i came to german it was too difficult for me and i wanted to feel that i can also belong to group and i took a wrong choice of people who used to drink,during this period in school we used to visit each other at birthday parties.
Then i later took Asylum and this was a hard moment because i was not supposed to work not even move from your landkreis,i was also not supposed to go to school and learn anything and it took me 9 years there so during this time we bought alcohol and drunk in groups because we had nothing else to do.
13. What effect have you seen in the past after consuming alcohol?
(with little and with much alcohol)
With little i feel celebrating moods and uplifting and edited mood
With much alcohol fatigue, nausea and mood swings
14. Was there any critical evidence from others regarding your alcohol consumption and how did you react?
My mother used to worn me to stop alcohol that i wont end up well
15. What effects and consequences did your alcohol consumption have on your life and environment?
I used to go at my girlfrieds hause to see her and i will end up fighting her and police used to come oft to get me out of the hause. Later i would regret it after alcohol is out of my head.
I loosed trust from the rest of the family members.
I loosed money.
My health was not good because i couldnt eat normal way.
16. Have there been any previous periods in your life where you have drunk far more alcohol than you have today?
If so, please name the stages of life and possible causes and circumstances.
I no longer drink alcohol so we cannot compare
17. Have you ever lost control of your drinking volume and consumed alcohol to the point of drowning?
No
18. Have you ever consciously and deliberately renounced alcohol altogether once or more often over a longer period of time?
I have never dealt with alcohol before
19. In which category of drinkers have you seen each other before and how do you rate yourself today in retrospect?
(with reason)
Before i was a social drinker
Then later i abused alcohol
Today and in the future
20. Do you drink alcohol today? If yes, what, how much and how often?
(Exact data in variety, quantity, frequency)
No
21. When did you last drank alcohol?
5.1.2019
22. Do you occasionally drink alcohol-free beer?
No
23. Why are you drinking alcohol / no alcohol today?
After the incident of drunk driving i was really schocked with the percentage of alcohol i was holding on in my body and the risk i was taking to drive while drunk and i had really tried to avoid drunk driving. This brought me into a schock and i decided to quit alcohol. Since when i even try to drink little i normally found my self taking more alcohol and i have noticed my alcohol tolerance is getting more and more.
24. Why did you reduce or give up drinking and why not earlier?
I have never thought how much i have really been drinking or even to meassure my alcohol percentage but i was schocked on this day the police checked my alcohol and this made me feel more afraid of loosing my life because the alcohol tolerance is up. With the help of my Verkehrspsychologie i have been able to work on my earlier drinking and we have been able to come up with a solution of leaving without alcohol.we have also been able to look at the disadvantages of alcohol too.
25. How did you achieve the change in your drinking behavior and experienced the changeover phase?
I first hade to quit all my earlier friends and i changed my anmeldung from the asyl Heim we used to stay all together with them, i found my self a job and i have been busy with my job. And during weekend when am not at work i goes to my girlfriend to help her with my son,am back my hobbies too so all my time is occupied.
26. How does your changed behavior affect you, your life and your environment?
Am happy now that i have gained strength and relationship of me my girlfriend my son and all my family members are now back in my life. Am back to my hobbies too.
27. How do you ensure that your new behavior remains stable over time?
Strict compliance with my abstinence.
I have also learned to talk to people who are close to me any problem that i may be facing and i have withdrawn all my ealier friends. I have been talking to people and my church members about my ealier drinking behavior without shame and i like the way i get positive compliments about that. I have been also meeting people who wants to change and quit drinking and they have been asking for advice too.
28. Can you imagine ever falling back into your old habits?
(with reason)
Theoretically, I can already imagine that, nobody can look into the future. Through the help of professional psychologist i have been able to learn how to handle my situations that can make me fall back, If I get into any situation that can make me fall back i turn to my family,friends and my pastor and discuss with them my problems.
29. How do you want to separate drinking from driving in the future?
I no longer drink
30. Do you have anything to add at the end?
No
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